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Be Firm. Get Calm. Stay Kind.

In the midst of parenting, have you ever…

• Lost your cool and made a tough situation even worse?
• Felt guilty after shouting, yelling, or snapping at your child?
• Shamed and criticized your child to get them to listen?
• Caught yourself disciplining like your parents did, and it doesn’t feel good?
• Struggled to enforce consequences because you second-guessed yourself?
• Avoided following through because you are too exhausted to handle the drama that comes next?
• Found yourself walking on eggshells in your own home?

You are not alone. We've all been there.

Good news — there's nothing wrong with you, mama.

Gentle respectful parenting is a skill. We aren’t born knowing how to do this well.

Kind parenting doesn't come naturally to those of us who haven’t seen it modeled. It’s not the cultural norm.

Finding a calm-down recipe for yourself will transform your household.

Setting limits with your professional boundary pusher doesn’t have to escalate to a battle of wills!

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for parenting tips, tricks, and scripts that bring more warmth, connection, and cooperation to your family. 

Feel confident when things get chaotic. Start learning immediately!

Self-Regulation 101 for parents and other leaders. Learn how to calm yourself in the midst of chaos, defiance and uncontrollable emotions. Grow your body's ability to recover from stressful inputs like your child's upset and big emotions.

Gentle Parenting 101. Learn the basics of communicating gently so your child is more likely to cooperate and feel connected. Feel confident in the limits you set as a parent and bring more peace into your home with four E.P.I.C. parenting skills!

Set sturdy & sensible limits. Exhausted by your little boundary-pusher’s creative loopholes, relentless arguments, and constant pushback? Create a plan for setting limits that actually work so your child can cooperate with important house rules. Remain flexible while staying clear on your vision of what matters most!

I don't know a single person who wouldn't benefit from this class — parent or not, we can literally always be better at recognizing our bodies and our emotions. Finding your calm is an interpersonal skill that everyone needs. I would have paid more - truly. But I like the price point because it's easily justifiable.

- Stephanie

You really helped me pause and recalibrate. It is the most important gift I’m giving my family — to have ‘confidence rooted in love and joy’ that allows me to be calm when they are extra spicy sometimes, freedom to have allllllll the feelings, and to give grace with boundaries. YOU are doing sacred work. Thank you — though I’m sure my family thanks you more!

- Natalie

“I learned how to give up control of things that don’t truly matter — like choosing his outfits and appearance. Mary noticed the pleading tone in my voice that I sometimes use to set boundaries and helped me find a more confident approach… I’ve gone from being tight-fisted to openhanded. I’m a steward of this child and I know he’s a blessing in his spiciness.”
—Mirriam

What a beautiful class. I think your perspective on parenting is so lovely and Christ-like… this class was utterly transformative and I am so thankful for it and for you. You have such a beautiful heart. Also, as I have watched bits of this, I will narrate what I’ve learned to my husband and he loves it every bit as much.

— Celia

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 Frequently Asked Questions

  • Each class requires 1 - 2 hours to watch videos and do the homework.

  • CALM class is applicable for parents of kids of any age. Whether your children are infants or adults, it’s never too late to find your calm! This is a leadership class for adults who want to be the most regulated person in the room.

    FIRM class is for parents and childcare providers of kids aged 2-17 who lack mentors or role models demonstrating warm authoritative parenting. This is a leadership class for adults wanting to break habits like pleasing or avoiding conflict left over from their own upbringing.

    KIND class is for parents and childcare providers of kids aged 2-17 who lack mentors or role models demonstrating warm authoritative parenting. This is a leadership class for adults wanting to break habits or harshness left over from their own punitive upbringing.

  • Yes. Bring them along for the ride! No extra purchase is required.

  • Your purchase grants you access to all class materials for as long as I run this business of coaching moms on the Internet (aka, for the foreseeable future)!

  • Because the course is a digital product that is immediately accessible, you must not have accessed teachable class info to be eligible for a refund.

    Please note as a small business owner, I only consider refund requests received within seven (7) days of purchasing the collection.

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