Gentle discipline techniques to replace yelling, shame and punishment

Stop Turning Into The Monster Parent You Swore You'd Never Be

Enroll in the KIND Class for $49

Learn 4 brain-dead-simple techniques to get your kid to cooperate without yelling, bribing, or drowning in guilt—even when you're exhausted.

You know you shouldn't yell. Obviously shaming doesn't work. But when your kid won't listen for the 47th time today, you find yourself back in old-school parenting.

Does this sound like you?

  • Your child's big emotions trigger your momma rage and you react instead of respond

  • You're trying to stay respectful, but when your child is defiant, you forget every gentle technique you've learned

  • You know punishment and shaming don't work, but you don't have better tools in the moment

  • You want to connect with your child, but you end up lecturing, using sarcasm, or giving the silent treatment

  • You want to build a long-term relationship based on respect, not fear—but right now you're just surviving

  • You lie awake replaying what you said and hate yourself for it

Most parenting advice doesn't work for intense kids. You know what you DON'T want to do (spank, shame, yell), but you're not clear on what to DO instead. And the guilt is eating you alive.

You're not failing. You just need the right tools.

Enroll in the KIND Class for $49

Stop trying to control your kids' behavior and start managing your own.

Once I had simple, concrete techniques I could remember even when triggered, everything shifted. My kids became easier. I became calmer. Our relationship healed.

Enroll in the KIND Class for $49

How It Works

  • Enroll:

    Purchase the on-demand KIND class for $49.

  • Learn:

    Watch or Listen to 60 minutes of recorded instruction with real-world examples. Watch immediately upon purchase.

  • Practice:

    Utilize the printable worksheet for note-taking and guided personal reflection to practice the techniques in your daily life.

  • Transform:

    Experience deeper connection and increased cooperation without threats, bribing, or shaming.

Enroll in the KIND Class for $49

KIND is possible. Let's infuse some extra gentleness into your parenting.

Enroll in the KIND Class for $49

What Parents Are Saying

  • "I deeply appreciated your transparency, how you shared how you used to feel rage and turn into a monster... made me feel understood, especially given my childhood trauma and how my mother was a monster. I want to break the generational curse of yelling to be heard."

    —Karina F.

  • "After watching this class, I feel more hopeful about motherhood than I have in a very long time!"

    —Jessica

  • "What a beautiful class. I think your perspective on parenting is so lovely and Christ-like... this class was utterly transformative and I am so thankful for it and for you. You have such a beautiful heart. Also, as I have watched bits of this, I will narrate what I've learned to my husband and he loves it every bit as much."

    —Celia

  • "I'm like a kid sometimes in that I don't need a list of don'ts, I need to have the right ways modeled for me. This gave me some great examples on actions I can take, and the mental visuals I need to remember them."

    —Amanda

  • "I loved the 4 tools, so very powerful. The examples as applied are really applicable. It's easy to understand and implement."

    —Christine

Frequently asked questions:

  • This class is for parents of kids aged 2-10 years old.

  • If you're so dysregulated you can't get through a day without multiple blow-ups, start with CALM first to get your nervous system under control. KIND works best when you can pause for 3 seconds before reacting.

  • If you've been a respectful parent all along the way, the TEEN class (Shift Your Parenting) will be a lifesaver! But if you're brand new to these concepts, it takes a lot more work to repair your connection with a child. KIND techniques are most appropriate for younger children aged 2-10 years old.

  • Yes, they are welcome to view the class with you!

  • Nope. While I personally identify as a deconstructing, radically affirming Christian, no religious affiliation is specifically associated with this class. I do believe parents need the benefits that come with opening up to a higher power, but how you define that is up to you.

  • Your purchase grants you access to all class materials for as long as I run this business of coaching moms on the Internet (aka, for the foreseeable future)!

Enroll in the KIND Class for $49
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